To every person who used to identify as ace or aro but doesn’t anymore,
I love you! Your time in and contributions to the ace/aro community are still worthwhile. Your honesty isn’t affirming the stereotype that all ace/aro people are just repressed. You aren’t ‘betraying’ ace/aro communities. You’ve come to a better and more comfortable understanding of yourself and that deserves nothing but celebration. I hope that the ace/aro identity and space helped you understand who you are better.
I love you and I’m proud of you!
Sincerely,
An always confused aroace